For most celebrities, appearing on Meghan Markle’s Archetypes podcast was a career moment worth flaunting. But for Mariah Carey—one of the world’s most enduring pop icons—it seems the experience isn’t even worth mentioning.

Meghan Markle appears to suffer snub as Mariah Carey discusses meeting royal

In an icy move that’s now making headlines on both sides of the Atlantic, Carey, 56, completely bypassed any reference to the Duchess of Sussex during a recent Hits Radio interview. The singer, preparing for a high-profile performance at King Charles’ Sandringham House, was directly asked about her royal connections.

Instead of bringing up Meghan, with whom she shared an entire episode in 2022, Carey offered a warmer memory: meeting Sarah Ferguson, Duchess of York, whom she called “cool.”

For a woman famous for remembering—and reminding others—of her glittering career moments, the omission didn’t go unnoticed.

From Podcast Guests to Public Snub

Mariah Carey

Back in 2022, Meghan had booked Carey for an episode titled “The Duality of the Diva.” It was meant to be a deep dive into the complicated, often negative connotations of the word “diva” and how women—especially women of color—navigate it.

What Meghan didn’t expect was to become the example.

In the middle of the conversation, Carey turned the spotlight on her host. “You give us diva moments sometimes, Meghan,” she said breezily.

A startled Meghan laughed nervously. “What kind of diva moments do I give you?”

Carey didn’t miss a beat. “Don’t act like…” she teased, before clarifying that it was all in the visuals: Meghan’s posture, her glamorous wardrobe, her “fabulous ensembles.”

Compliment or Cut?

Mariah insisted the label was a compliment, a nod to style and presence—not character flaws.

“A lot of it is the look,” she explained. “Let’s pretend you weren’t so beautiful and didn’t often have gorgeous ensembles—you wouldn’t maybe get as much diva. I don’t care, I’m like, when I can, I’m going to give you diva.”

But for Meghan, the word carried weight. Later in the episode, she admitted the comment “stopped me in my tracks” and left her “squirming in my chair in quiet revolt.”

“You couldn’t see me, but I started to sweat a little bit… ‘Wait, no, what? How could you? That’s not true, why would you say that?’” Meghan confessed to listeners.

Her mind, she said, was “genuinely spinning” as she wondered if her “girl crush” on Carey had just come to “a quick demise.”

The Aftermath of a Word

Meghan Markle

By the end of the podcast, Carey had reiterated that she meant “diva” as chic, aspirational—something to own, not avoid. Meghan acknowledged the clarification but admitted that her own associations with the word had been far less flattering.

It was a neat resolution for the episode’s theme, but the tension between the two women was hard to miss.

Fast-forward two years, and Carey’s latest royal-themed interview appears to have reignited speculation that not all was smooth between the Duchess and the diva.

Why Sarah Ferguson Made the Cut

Carey’s choice to highlight her meeting with Sarah Ferguson instead of Meghan may seem small, but in the world of celebrity diplomacy, omissions can speak volumes.

Ferguson—once an outcast herself in royal circles—has long cultivated a warm, self-deprecating public image. Calling her “cool” plays as both charming and safe.

Meghan, by contrast, remains one of the most polarizing figures connected to the British Royal Family. Praising her could easily trigger headlines—or even backlash—something Carey, known for guarding her own brand fiercely, may not have wanted to risk ahead of a royal gig.

The “Diva” Debate in Pop Culture

It’s also possible the 2022 exchange simply left an awkward aftertaste. For Carey, “diva” is a crown she wears proudly, part of a decades-long persona that blends glamour, vocal brilliance, and a dash of delicious high maintenance.

For Meghan, the label seemed less like a jewel and more like a jab. Even after Carey’s clarification, the Duchess admitted she heard it as a dig—proof, perhaps, that the word “diva” is still as loaded as ever.

In pop culture, the term has been used to describe everything from Beyoncé’s stage power to difficult on-set behavior. For some women, reclaiming it is empowering. For others, it’s a shorthand for being dismissed.

Reading Between the Lines

Carey’s silence on Meghan could be just that—silence. Or it could be a subtle distancing from a figure whose public battles with the British press and royal establishment remain ongoing.

After all, Carey isn’t the first celebrity to seem cool toward the Sussexes in recent months. As Prince Harry and Meghan work to reshape their brand—shifting from royal rebels to Hollywood producers—the reception from other A-listers has been mixed.

Some have embraced them. Others have kept their distance.

Meghan’s Takeaway

On Archetypes, Meghan ultimately framed the “diva” moment as a learning opportunity.

“She meant diva as a compliment,” she told listeners. “But I heard it as the word diva as I think of it… It actually made me realize… for some, reclaiming the word is what they feel will propel us forward.”

It was classic Meghan: turning an awkward exchange into a larger conversation about language, stereotypes, and identity.

Whether Carey saw it the same way is another story.

A Royal-Pop Culture Cold War?

For now, the Duchess of Sussex hasn’t commented on Carey’s omission. The singer, too, has stayed silent on any lingering frostiness. But in the celebrity world, snubs—real or perceived—often have a way of sparking long memories and longer gossip cycles.

With Carey stepping onto a royal stage for King Charles’ event and Meghan continuing her Netflix and philanthropic projects, their paths may not cross again anytime soon.

Still, fans remember. And in the age of social media, every sidestep, every omission, every carefully chosen anecdote becomes part of the larger story.

Final Note: The Power of a Snub

Mariah Carey has built a career on being the ultimate diva in the best possible way—commanding the spotlight, dictating her own narrative, and never saying more than she wants to.

By choosing not to mention Meghan Markle, she may have said more than words ever could.

In celebrity politics, after all, sometimes the coldest move isn’t criticism. It’s pretending someone isn’t even there.